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Love can never be your authority

“ Love is not an elusive for me anymore. My vehicle knows how to love; at least it seems as far as my vehicle is concerned. So, that's what it is. That's interesting. And the vehicle feels good, and that's nice. The vehicle gets hurt; well, that's okay. It's what happens when the passenger is here. It's like what happens to me in these classrooms. I'm in here listening to me. I have an unconscious mind. I don't know what the hell l'm going to do or say. And my passenger sits in here and says a good flow today; not bad. Every once in awhile it says good stuff or you're being funny today. I have no sense of that being me . It's what experienced as my life. I allow life to simply be there.

I used to get so concerned when they would get mad at me. I don't care anymore. I don't. It's so funny. It's like, ah , this happens and that happens. It's the way it is. I'm not going to change it. I can't. I can't change my partner, that's called murder. What are you going to do? The only healing that we can bring is the healing that returns someone to their own authority.

Love can never be your authority.

Oh, I'll make all the fuzzy people upset now.

Love can never be your authority.

You have to be your own authority; no one else’s. You have to understand something about the trap of duality. If you're identified with this process, you will be unhappy with the other all your life, regardless of whatever mask you wear. And at the moment you release yourself from the mental control of your life, the moment you open yourself up to following what is truly your authority, you'll begin to understand something very funny. You don't care."

| Ra Uru Hu